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Why Your Customers Will Never Be Your "Friends" Online

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Is everyone telling you that your small business should have more "friends" online? Of course you already know that your customers have virtual friends as part of their social networks and they can "friend" someone on Facebook. On Twitter, they choose to "follow" another user and the old Facebook Page model used to allow you to become a "fan" of an individual or organization as well. For all of these terms, "friend" is the one that most small businesses single mindedly latch on to when thinking about a goal to focus on while using social media. Being successful in social media has come to be equated with having more friends for your brand online.

The problem with this logic is that people don't naturally become friends with brands.

Relationships with organizations are tough to describe as "friendship." People do, however, become friends with other people – and often those people work for brands. The relationship with your brand, however, is more accurately described with the other two terms popular in social media … followers and fans. So when it comes to thinking about how you can get more customers engaged with your brand through social media – forget about friendship and focus on increasing your fans and followers.

Creating More Followers

Followers is a broad term that could mean anyone from your potential customers to your current customers. They are "following" you because they are interested in what you do or have a need that they are looking for you to help them with. They are not fans yet, because they may not believe in your brand – but to this group, you have become relevant for some reason and your challenge is to keep that interest alive.

This is the category of individual that social media can help you tremendously to grow because it is typically based on a real need. Followers typically drive UTILITY because the more of them you have, the more useful you want to be for them to keep them loyal and engaged in the long term. 

The best way to create more followers is through offering useful and engaging tools and content through social media. If you sell desks, help them to plan their home offices with information or interactive tools like room planners. If you are a legal firm, educate them about key legal considerations in specific areas and use tools like Twitter to aggregate and share useful information. Followers come when you give something of value to them, and they stay if you continue to offer that value.

Creating More Fans

Fans are at the next and deeper level. These are a subset of your customers who truly believe in your brand and want more opportunities to engage with it. They are the VIPs, the ones who will tell others about your products and services. They are the referrers that drive word of mouth for your business. 

When it comes to social media, this is the group that you should try to focus the most attention on because they are your most vocal advocates and typically most profitable relationships. Fans help you acquire more fans, and this can also be an escalation path for followers to become fans over time.

The information you share with followers will also be of interest to fans – the biggest difference is that fans should be treated like your best customers. In an ideal case, they actually WILL BE your best customers so this should come as second nature. Try to share special offers and exclusive invitations with them. Give them content or materials that are not available elsewhere. Ask them questions and respect and converse with them about their responses. Think of this group as your "inner circle" and treat them like it.

This post is republished from my original article on the Amex Open Forum website. It is part of "Small Business Friday" on this blog, where I share ideas and marketing techniques specifically to help small businesses stand out.

To read more articles like this, visit the "Small Business Friday" category on this blog.

7 thoughts on “Why Your Customers Will Never Be Your "Friends" Online”

  1. I really like what you said: “When it comes to social media, this is the group that you should try to focus the most attention on because they are your most vocal advocates and typically most profitable relationships.”

    Many companies forget about their most loyal advocates and fans… The ones who are most vocal need their egos stroked for them – just as we need ours stroked.

    J. Souza
    socialmediamagic.com

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  2. Great post! Thanks for sharing… I totally agree with Kevin… Fans are really important and they should be treated as important friends… Thanks for sharing the post…

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  3. There is certainly a difference between a friend, a follower, and a fan. As you mentioned, it starts with following. If they like what they see, they may become a fan. Becoming a friend is least likely, unless a personal connection is formed.

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